Life is Sure Funny...
When I went out to the movies, I happened to be missing my Vietnamese ex and how we used to cuddle and make out in the back of the theater. I must've been throwing those vibes and carnal sensations out into the universe, because three days later, she called me! Felt bad about not returning my phone calls 3 years ago and wants to be "friends". I reluctantly said yeah, and within 5 minutes of talking (or me talking and her listening), it became painfully obvious why she's an ex. We're so different in so many ways. Even our sex drives and desires for affection don't match up. But it was nice to have her thrown back into the mix so I can see why we were wrong for each other in the first place. I wish her well, but I'm not going to call her and could care less if she calls. Meanwhile, I've got the love of Jesus in my heart, and, if I need to jerk off to relieve myself sexually, I will. I don't really need a woman. But will be open to talking with one if she should come along.
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I am laughing so hard with your last paragraph. One thing about you, you just \"put it out there\". That was a pretty interesting observation about the ex. Isn\'t it weird how you meet somone and everything is sooooo different and the you get to know who they really are...and sometimes your not so different, or you still really are but the components seem to fit exceptionally well.. Is she really going back into the mix? Are you guys really going to date? I am like \"go for it\" because you will never know unless you physically \"show-up\" for the relationship what the deal could or could not be...Good Luck Coolman...L
Thanks, lala. Happy to amuse. I think she wants me back the way we used to be, which seems to be a very sedate, soft, silky, affectionate thing we used to have going on, which included kissing and fondling, but never led to sex. Although I\'m not entirely happy with it, I\'m somewhat happy with it, and I suppose her \"calming influence\" is exactly what I need right now (as does she, because she works extremely hard and also needs to relax during her down-time) and we could be what we used to be. Will keep you posted!