LIFE IS CHALLENGING.......

We're all different ships passing in the night in our family.  Husband and I haven't had the opportunity to talk about our middle son's drug dealing situation before J took off for the weekend with friends.  My husband and I will be spending some time together this weekend so we will have plenty of time to discuss.  I am not looking forward to it because he can talk tough but when it comes down to it (at least in the past) he hates to rock the boat.  I know how that feels this time because J has been wonderful!  I really like having him around BUT - at the same time - I know that we have to, HAVE TO address this and not ignore it.  The pain medication is scary - even IF he's not taking any himself ---- but dealing!??  The arrogance and stupidity - especially when he knows what his brother and we all went through!  And knowing I'm doing a program!  Unbelieveable!