Life after Death

What do we do as fans when famous people die? For me when Bobby Hatfield (a Righteous Brother), Luther Vandross, Whitney Houston and Robin Williams died, it pulls on my heart strings so. Hatfield and Williams were both 63, Vandross 54, and Houston 49 all taken much too soon. What bothers me is that Houston and Williams could have controlled their death. I was very sick with depression many years ago and I use to say "I want to die". What I was really saying is that I needed a reprieve from the darkness in my head. I wish Houston and Williams could have found a reprieve. I have felt grief for these people even though I don't know them, perhaps it is because they touched my soul in one way or another.