Lies continue to grow
Yesterday as i was talking to my wife i asked her why she had to do go do all this, her response to me was , she hasnt had sex with anyone, never mind the ring is off and the taunting, she says they were just playing, i am suppose to just believe all this and buy into her line of bs
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You know better by now. What she is saying is pure BS. So no, you should not believe this.
She has shown you who she really is over the last couple months. Believe that.
Remember that this women lived with you for many years, and knows your fears and weaknesses. She knows how to manipulate you.
She knows that you still want the dream of what was. She knows by the way you have acted that you would be willing to take her back. She might not want you, but I would bet she wants a back up plan in case her affair with the child molesting ex doesn\'t end well.
Don\'t believe it. Stay on the path to the divorce. Protect your daughter and you.
Control the fire ... sacrifice the love you had for that false image of her, to save the rest of what is important. Your daughter and you.
I\'m with ImDealing on this one also. There cannot be reconcilation as long as she toys with you like this.
Like I told you yesterday..what she wants to do is dangle the carrot of hope for you. She is thinking that if you believe that it is POSSIBLE for you and her to reconcile you will be more amicable to what she wants because you will care if it makes her angry. If you are sure the relationship is over, then you wont be and you have no reason to worry if what you do makes her angry or hurts her.
First of all..what she is saying about the OM, that is complete horse shit! The person she showed you when she was fearless and thought she held all the cards, THAT is the real woman. She had no reason to hide anything from you then. She felt free to say and do as she pleased.
Now that she realizes that she in fact does NOT hold the cards and that you actually have options and she cant just up and walk with everything like she planned to, she is having to back up. She is now trying to soften you up again so you will do what she wants you to do. Plain and simple.
If she meant a single word she said to you yesterday, she would have no reason to see her lawyer. She would be moving back home. The lawyer would not be needed for that. No, what she is doing is playing you like a fiddle.
Any woman that will be with a man that is what he is and the fact that he was with her OWN daughter..... she is not a person that has ANY limits to how low she will go. NONE.
You were/are not in love with this woman. You are in love with who she pretended to be. You are in love with the memory of that and the wish to have what you thought would be your future back. We all go through that when a relationship ends against our will.
Stand firm, and dont let her work you. If I were you, I wouldnt bend a millimeter. If you feel yourself softening, picture the woman that you faced in the court room. The one that looked at you with NO LOVE in her eyes. The one that wanted to hurt you in any way she could. Because I promise you that is the woman she actually is behind the mask she is wearing in front of you now. She is manipulating you. She has been from the time you won temporary custody. Like I said, she is backing up to punt now.
Hats off to Nanasrcool! I couldn\'t have said it better or more clearly than she has.
But I must add this -- yeah, right, she \"hasn\'t had sex with anyone.\" Yeah, right, and I went to an ice cream social and sat there and ate Saltine crackers.
Liar, liar her pants are on fire and you are JUST PLAIN STUPID if you believe her!