left.... and it\'s right
I LEFT!!!I left him for good! I feel so GREAT!!!So, today we got into a fight and he smashed a kitchen chair, broke the cabinet door on the microwave cart, threatened to burn down the house and everything in it, and threatened to kill Bob (our cat) so that neither of us could have him. So, as soon as he left for work, I called my dad. He called my mom and told her to go to my house. I called a lawyer, but she said she can't help me because she doesn't do domestic violence divorces. She put me through to this guy named Blaine something-or-other (can't remember his last name). But he wants $2,050 up front, then $200 per hour after that. I can't afford that, and I don't know anyone who can help me with that. The guy was a total jerk, I tried to explain to him that I have absolutely no money and that my husband refused to put me on the bank account. He also said that my case isn't severe enough!!! So I'm screwed in that department for now. I'll have to wait on it I guess...He doesn't know yet that I'm gone. He'll know when he comes home from work though. I have to keep breathing deep to calm my nerves. Oh well... (I'm still VERY worried about Bob)
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I am happy for you!! I am worried about BOB too. but something will work in your favor dear friend soon! I am just glad you are away! You did exactly what I did, I left when my ex was at work. Keep strong! Keep the faith! I shall continue as always keep you in my prayers and thoughts dear friend!! ((Hugs)) ~shelly&jt~
GRATSSS!!!!!! I will keep Bob in my thots!! That is awful about the lawyers tho...
This is the best news I have heard all day! I`m so happy for you & Jonathan.Neither of you deserved that kind of life & you`re right your hubby will not change without help.Its too bad about the lawyer.If it was him or his family getting abused I bet it would be severe enough! I worry about Bob too but he might use him to try to get you back.Big hugs!
Wow. Melinda that is brilliant new, you are so brave! Are Jonathan and Bob with you? May somebody could go and get Bob, like your Dad?
Hats off to you for having the courage for doing this
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:) Good News! Will be praying for you, including Bob.
I am glad you have left. I know that you are concerned about Bob. Please keep us updated.