latest feelings about marital separation
well, in my separation right now I'm to the point where I really have nothing to say to my wife (soon-to-be-ex). There used to be a time when I wanted to tell her whatever was new in my life and what was new with my son. Now I really don't care to tell her anything. IN fact, I'd rather share my news with friends at work and online friends rather than her. In fact, I'm more at the anger stage now working to progress toward the forgiveness phase which I am not at right now. I guess I'm angry because her son does not have his mom in his life every day like he would like. Forget what I'm feeling - what about her son?
The only thing I do feel is a big of lonliness on the weekends not having her (or someone like her) around to share my life with. but at least I got relatives and friends like the one I'll see next weekend and then a divorce or separation party at the end of the month.
The only thing I do feel is a big of lonliness on the weekends not having her (or someone like her) around to share my life with. but at least I got relatives and friends like the one I'll see next weekend and then a divorce or separation party at the end of the month.
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Divorce is awful, I can attest to that. I can only tell you there is life after divorce.Try and see a life without her for you and your sons sake. Start dating, you can only move forward if you let go of the past. Im only telling you this as I have been there. Your bitter right now and that isnt good for you, you have another chance at being happy. You cant make her want you, I couldnt make my husband want me. But you can move on with your pride, you tried, you did your best.If you dont move on you will scare away prospective girlfriends.
I definitely know that feeling! Hang in there, it will get better!