Late period, negative test

Had a rough nigh last night. It is hard because I feel like I can't talk to my husband. Since its his sperm that are the "issue" he gets so upset when i get upset because he feels like its his fault. Last night I took a test because I am late and I was so sad and crying because it was negative. I told him and he seriously said nothing. I was so angry. He gave me a big hug later and I know that was his way of saying he's sorry.