Last night
Last night's date went very well. We went out for dinner and went for ice cream after that. We did a lot of talking. She told me about her kids (school kids) and I told her about my work. Then the question came up. Do I want kids. I'm bittersweet on that so my honest answer is, if I have them great if not I won't be hurt. The evening ended with a nice hug and no kiss again but the look she gave me, I should make that move next time. I didn't want to move in and act to soon so I have that going for me.
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Smart thinking about moving slowly on the kiss stuff. Her look may or may not have meant whatever you think. We can't really read people's minds. I think what is considered proper in this day and age of "me, too" is to ask "May I kiss you?" Does she want kids? I think for men sometimes it takes meeting the right woman and getting focused and serious about life, job, relationship, marriage, etc. etc. Your thoughts and wants will likely change as you date this woman. You are a good man, remember that. Whatever you were in the past is gone, now you are walking the path of being a real man, one of good character. Remind yourself of your own value and worth.
Thanx hasty_05. I'm just going off my experience but you may be right. Yeah she wants 1 or 2 kids so if I'm for her I'm sure I'll be talked into it. Lol.