Last Days
Winter vacation is almost over. Wow! That was among the shortest 3 weeks of my life. Hubs is making plans to work out of the urban homestead early next week, after he drops the two elder GKs off with the other grandparents. The CPS investigation remains convoluted between investigators attempting to balance their cruel caseloads and family confusion. It is good that the GKs have so many caring adults in their lives, but communication between all those branches feels more challenging than the CINCUSAEUR communications I sorted during NATO military exercises. I am guessing the new granddaughter is with the other grandparents by now. My clues to where the parental units are or will be are equally vague. With the middle aged children, I am continuing to, "Let go and let God."
Big sister's birthday is Monday, the same day Big Brother goes back to school. My notion of today is to let Big Sister pick out her own birthday present, trusting that her 3 year old memory will forget picking it out between leaving the farm with it wrapped on Sunday and her urban birthday party on Monday. Given the family chaos this year, it wouldn't be much of a surprise if opening that present is all the birthday party she gets this year. Personally, I don't see that as the greatest tragedy in the family this year. Her almost 3 year old awareness is still a bit vague on what this birthday biz means, anyway.
Little Raptor is still defensive in her new cage, and still does not seem to be eating or drinking, but I remain hopeful I can win her over. I have no doubt she likes the bird cage with its 4 perches much better than the animal carrier, but I remain uncertain if her captivity is humane. I have found internet info which makes me think kestrels make great pets. We see what grows.
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Let Go and Let God sounds like a great plan to me.... I hope that there will be some peace to be found in 2019 Arf
Letting her pick out her birthday present sounds like a fun adventure for Grandma and her Grandbaby....smile
I hope that the wee Kestrel will start to eat soon.... You could always call the ASPCA and ask for their wildlife number.... They may be able to advise you?? re eating...…
It's so nice that you're helping her...…. Big hug.....xo
Picking out her own presents was a gas and I doubt remembering them when she opens them on Monday will diminish her joy a bit. Both children were thoroughly bewildered at being limited to newborn toy choices for the new little sister. No, love, little sisters are not born ready for zoom toys. We wrapped the presents for little sister, too.
My weakness for feather babies is showing again. I'm kinda hoping Raptor and I will be able to become friends. There are folks on the net who believe kestrels make great pets. I haven't caught her eating yet, but water sprinkles on the cage bottom make me think she has started drinking. She is acting much, much calmer when we walk past her cage.
That's so nice Arf……. I don't have children so I won't know the love of being a Grandma...… Ha.... I can see her wanting the 'zoom toy'
I think you and the Raptor can become great friends...… It doesn't take that long for the animals that are able to bond when it comes to the F word.....(food...wink)…...xo
From my own parenting perspect...You Rock!