Just want to put this out there...
I just want to throw this out here and see if anyone has any advice on this subject. Ok for the past four months since he walked out the door I have let him see Austin on Sunday's. Mainly because that is when he told me is best for him. I know he works alot it caused alot of problems during our marriage because if he put as much effort into to us as he did his work we would have been the poster couple for great relationships. Any way it just accured to me why do I have to have Austin all week and week end???? He keeps telling me to move forward and move on but wouldn't that include a date sometime or at least time to go out on the week ends and time to myself to drink if I want or cry if I want without having to worry about taking care of of Austin? He has all freaking week and the week end to himself then only takes Austin on Sunday's because it's convienent for him. Well that needs to change right? So I asked him if starting next week he would have Austin every other weekend from friday evening until sunday evening. He sent me a message saying didn't know if it was possible to rearrange his work. I told him i'm giving you a weeks notice to make your arrangements and that doesn't mean droppung him off at your mom's either for the weekend so you can go do what you want. Nope not gonna happen already spoke to his mom hahaha. Anyway he keeps saying I will see what I can do. I'm not stupid Arizona is in the playoffs everyone wants to go out on Sat nite to the sports pubs and watch the game. Me too but I have Austin and no money for a sitter. So i'm very frustrated right now that he won't commit to having his son every other weekend ya know... Any Advice Guys?????
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Your ex definitely needs to have more time with his son if he is indeed a good dad/role model... if he is, then it will benefit all.
can\'t help but think too that it depends on how Austin feels about being with his dad longer than he already is. Is he up for it?
Austin wants to see his dad more but my stupid selfish spoiled husband only wants what is easy and convienent for him. My husban is not a strong self confident man he is a scared selfish little boy. I will make sure he spends more time with him.