Just thinking out loud

I'm going to be more positive and stop beating myself up over Sara.  Sara is the one that has a major problem.  From this day forward if she calls again no matter what it is she wants my answer will be NO NO NO!!  Fred and I are married partners and our concentration will be on each other.  Yes, we have a daughter and she is an "adult" now and on her own.  Always thinking about her causes me more pain, stress and depression.  There is one thing I know for sure is Sara is not thinking about us and our welfare one bit.  It is going to be a very different Christmas this year but, I plan to have a house full of close family here to help me get through it.  I will be fine and I will count my many blessings I do have.  I will remember the true meaning of Christmas and why we celebrate it.