Just so fed up
Well here we go again, more crap. Went through new bank statement today and h has put us in the red again spend, spend, spend, no thought about the consequences again, just like his stupid affair, no thought to his stupid consequences. Asked him to tell me what he has spent all this money on and he says most of it was on us!!! bull shit. He took us all out for dinner on our sons bitrthday, he took me away for a night, but thats it and it no where comes near to the amount he has spent, all cash of course so there is no paper trail. ~Well fuck him, I hate him.
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Yes, been there done that ... but there is a plus side to this negativity. It totally confirms our decision that we are making the right move in trying to get beyond their selfishness. ((( hugs!)))
Yeah, did that happen to you too, overspending like we are soooo rich?
Drves me insane, he then turns it back onto me saying I spend too much, like I say only on the house, food, clothing family etc. What does he spend the money on.. HIMSELF and his lover no doubt. He has nothing at all to show for it at all, at least I do, food in cupboard, clothes on our backs. Petrol in car and so on.