just heard
Things didn't go as planned the judge gave him 3 months, I know this doesn't sound like much but when your husband and son are in prison at the same time it's devastating. I can't stop crying all I keep thinking about are his daughters, what are we going to tell them!! Even though my house is full of drama on a dsily basis now I'm glad we are all together!
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Oh pat iam so sorry that happened. Big hugs
Yes it does sound like much.. I am so sorry ... I can\'t imagine the pain you are feeling and it is the worst feeling in the world... the emotions are endless and the fear of the road ahead.. I just go back to how it felt when I found out my husband got a two year sentence every time I hear that someone just found out.. sending prayers your way!
I\'m so sorry. I read both your journals. The first one where you are crying made me so sad for you. I remember all this heartache you are going through. Waiting and wondering just is awful.
Now you have the sentence.it isn\'t what you wanted but one frustration is over. The unknowing.
I didn\'t remember that both son and husband are in. I know how that is too. I had a son and fiance in at the same time. Then one would go in, as the other came out, over and over 3 times. Now my son better behave, he has been out a year and a half. He was gone FOUR years. My fiance has been almost 3 years, after only being home 11 months, and was in 2 years before that. It is awful. There is nothing easy, ever about it. There is so much sadness, you have to wonder how people can be guards and not care about the sadness that is all around them. You have to wonder how to survive this. But you will. I have, over and over again.
I am going to have to find out your whole story again. Don\'t know if I missed it, or just forgot. We all have alot on our minds. I am so sorry for your sadness today and all of the days.
I think I\'ve told my story before but I\'m not sure so here goes. My husband is serving a 15 year federal sentence, he currently is in a camp in NJ which is a 6 hour drive from home. He has done 7 already so we are 1/2 way through thank god. My husband\'s rotten evil brother is part of the reason he is in prison in the first place, I\'ll explain, my b-in-law is a rat in 2000 he got himself in some trouble and to make a long story short he used his brother to get out of it. He introduced him to a FRIEND who was supposed to be a business man wanting to buy a busines in our area and asked for my husband\'s help. My husband became friend\'s with this guy, they had been friends for 5 years when this guy mentioned that he had a friend coming through town with something and asked if my husband could get a few guys to look out for it for him. My husband got 2 friends to help out and guess what it was a set-up and they said my husband was the ring leader. (Ithink you can read beteen the lines) The reason they picked my husband is because they wanted him to introduce him to someone he knew who also got in trouble and is serving time now. This friend turned out to be an undercover agent and waited 5 years before my husband\'s arrest, my husband had never been in trouble before not even a traffic violation, I\'m not saying he is a saint by any means but he didn\'t deserve what happened to him. My b-in-l is atill walking around free and has out 2 other people in jail, he really is evil. Needles to say I am not very close to my in-laws but my family and our friend have been very supportive. I could go on and on about this, someday maybe I\'ll write abook LOL. We have been married for 33 years and he truly is my soulmate, you feel like it read somwe of my old journals and they should fill you in on the rest of my drama, Thanks for your thinking of me I\'m sorry if I vented to long. By the way I\'ve been reading about your detective work sure does sound fishy to me, keep us all posted.
Hugs,
Pat