Just Trying to Understand
Its been 3 months since she rocked my world and said she doesn't love me anymore, wants a divorce, we grew apart, we changed, we don't have the same interests, etc. Made me feel guilty.
Said "fuck you" to my face, threatened me regarding custody, flipped me off. Made me feel angry.
Said she's sorry she waited so long to divorce me, she doesn't like me much anymore and pointed and screamed at me for standing up for my self regarding my kids, my money, my home and my dignity. Made me feel grateful that I'll soon be rid of this vile, toxic bitch.
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It sounds like you will be well rid of her. It's hard to believe that people who once loved each other so much can come to this. I've had that thought a lot about my life lately, and it seems fitting here too. I'm so sorry she's treating you this way - you deserve better than that. Keep standing up for yourself. It's not only good for you, it's good for your kids.
I don't understand the purpose of being mean and hateful to someone you once loved, shared your life with, and with whom you built a family. I think the whole situation is just so sad. I understand people fall out of love or people change or feelings change.....yes, I do understand that so much, but being mean and cruel, just don't get it. She clearly has her own issues (maybe organic, maybe emotional) she can't properly articulate.
She has checked out forever. Now any guilt or feeling bad is all your fault.
YOU made me!
YOU made me comfort eat and triple in size!
YOU made me feel bad about myself so I saw someone in secret!
YOU remind me of my guilt!
YOU didnt buy a big enough birthday card