Just got the worst email ever from her.
She emailed back but guess what?! She completely blow me off and rejected me when I had asked earlier in the week to get together! She said no. How come its ok when she asks me but not ok when I ask??? The email she sent this morning hurts so much!!!! I'm beyond upset right now not sure how to take this. And she said I can't text her anymore period!! She said I couldn't text her anymore ever! I can only do email!!! Beyond depressed and hurt. She emailed me this morning and said no to getting together and said I couldn't text anymore just email and she never said when we could get together!! She just said no. what did i do??? So hurt right now.
Someone help!!!
Someone help!!!
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It sounds like you need to give her a taste of her own medicine.Tell her not to email you or text you know more you mved on.This is not healthy relationship.Make new friends.People only can treat you like this if you let them.Hold your head high and move on!
I have to agree with Annie. This IS how my relationship with one of my friends was when I was having problems worrying about everything between he and I. This kind of relationship DOES NOT work. PERIOD. PLEASE trust me, I am the voice of experience. It hurts like hell, it keeps the anxiety on your end running at an extreme, I\'m begging you not to do it to yourself. She\'s creating distance between you two which is clearly something you can not tollerate. You don\'t see eye to eye on how much time to spend together, she\'s creating INTENSE anxiety for you. This relationship is unhealthy. PLEASE make new friends.
I don\'t know the backstory, but from reading your most recent post, I agree completely wth annieheart and APieceOfMyHeart.
Am having trouble imagning what you could have done to warrant such disrespectful treatment.
It sounds like she is being...just plain mean.
How about you send her an e-mail telling her calmly that you feel she is being unfair and disrespectufl (or whatever you feel) to you, and that you can\'t have a friendship with someone who treats you that way?
You can finish with something along the lines of, \"I care about you very much, and would love to continue our friendship on equal terms. If you agree that you will stop treating me this way, please contact me.\" Something to that effect in your own words. And then no more contact from you. The ball is in her court.
If she simply cuts you off without real explanation or an attempt on her part to salvage the friendship, then, as much as it hurts, I think you have to accept that this relationship is over.
Respect YOURSELF. Don\'t accept mistreatment from friends. (And if they\'re true friends, they won\'t mistreat you.)
(I mean, from reading your most recent journal entries.)