JUST A THOUGHT......
Lately me and my husband have been disagreeing again. Yes I get mad and I tell him I am mad. He SURELY tells me when he is upset. I know I should not write back angry and I can say that I have a better understanding of that and I do avoid it now but I do write back calmly and politely give him a piece of my mind(ha ha) I'm sorry I cant let him or no one disrespect me. Bottom line I get mad, he gets mad so mad we both may even consider divorce at the time but once we calm down we think better... I love him always and he he loves me always!
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I think it is ok to let him know when he has hurt you or made you angry. Why not? You sure would to each other if he were home, right? Why hold anything back? They are there for a reason, we are here waiting for them. Why treat them like they are King\'s and we must be so careful not to worry, upset them or anger them? Did they think of us if they did something wrong to get in there?
And as you say, we fight, we calm down and we still love each other. Love isn\'t always roses and sunshine. Wouldn\'t life be boring if all we did is smile and agree with everyone all of the time? Differences make a union of two people stronger in many ways. We may not like their opinions or choices, and they won\'t like ours, but you come to get used to those differences and it\'s what makes it interesting and a stronger relationship if you can stick it out through those.
I think that made sense.
yes it did thank you!