July 8

  We had a long discussion last night about mixed messages. I've finally come to realize he can't take a hint.  I came home last night after being with some friends, went to the bedroom to change into some sexy.  I didn't close the bedroom door because he would have been suspicious and opened the door spoiling the surprise.  He has a habit of looking for me when I'm out of sight, even when I'm in the bathroom with the door closed!  Anyway, the surprise was spoiled anyway when he walked in on me getting dressed; I was trying to be as quick as possible. I was really disappointed in myself in how I went about things.  I told him to go away.  I know, I know not good!  I sat on the couch with him, but by then the mood couldn't get started regardless of what I was wearing.  Ugh. I asked if he wanted a snack while I was getting something, and he said  'yeah, you'.  So I said,  'Okay'.  I figured he'd get off the couch and get me.....nope.  I finished making the snack and went to bed.  I wanted him to make the first move, I'm tired of being the one who comes onto him.   He told me doesn't remember me saying 'okay'.  That put me in a tailspin.  He thought I said ' that's not going to happen ' or  ' yeah, right'.  REALLY?! was my response.   Games.  Stupid games. Anyway, he came to bed a couple of hours later, and this morning it was as if nothing bad happened.  Passive/aggressive relationship