judgement issued

the judge gave her a judgement for the 7,8 plus dollas I have to pay her, and set a date feb 22 for child support and both of us to show financials . she and her 3 girl pack just were gleeming and smiling, stare down in the court at me, so after I walked out, talked to my attorney, (now my 81 year old father has to testify that he has loaned me money)  30 mins later when I walked out of the court house, the x and her friend were walking back in, the girlfriend of the oldest son said very loud hey scott did you get the xmas card from your son, I just kept walking. If I resoponded  I would be in voilation of court order, the x would go in and state with witnesses that I spoke to her.
So now my attorney has warned me that she will now go after everything, bank accounts, lien on house, etc. I have no money and the little I have is to survive. the child support that she can t pay me , hopefully will be adjusted on the judgment.   Now I just need work , loan or whatever to pay her off and get her off my back..  and   not a word about her son!