JUDGEMENT AND BITTERNESS

I find the judement of people (BIO-PARENTS) who are having a difficult time, hard to read, so I have been staying away from this site. Little-ones are not oblivious to these difficult situations,...I always try to ask myself,...Is this a health/well-being issue (SAFETY) or a (PERSONAL) moral issue. I have a little-one that loves her MOM to bits, I am NOT her Mother, but her caretaking Grand-Mother. Her Mom does behave in crazy socially-unacceptable ways, BUT my judgement of her will do nothing more than damage an already damaged soul further. Our family has crazy ADHD genetics/diagnosed traits, and through the decades, it has become obvious that life can be extremely challenging for the afflicted individuals,..and yes, for the support-people around them also. We try to model our reactions to the insanity like water-off-a-ducks-back,..our MIA Mom has taken to grow-opping with her violent, anti-social boyfriend,...OH well, no Moms-home visits, just a little time for us to invent more of our own fun,..everything is a blessing, many in diguise! Sometimes,.. it is so hard to see the up-side of craziness,..