Jon's ashes
It's time to finish it. To decide what to do with my son, her husband, the children's father, their friend. He was so much to so many people. I've checked into urns. We think we want a wooden box. I will probably have it personalized so it will be out last homage to Jon. We want him to finish his life as he lived it, his way. We have to finish it and start on our search for what will now become out new life without him. It will never be as full as when he was here but we will do our best again to make it through another day.
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It will probably help you all to decide what to do with Jon\'s ashes. I think when we got Alex\'s marker for his gravesite it helped. It did somehow make things real...another step into the reality of things. which is another emotional part of the journey. But one that we must go through. I am sure that whatever you decide for your son, it will be perfect. Love and peace to you..Karen
There are so many painful decisions to be made when the unthinkable happens. I know Jon will be proud of you and honored by your choice. I send you love and peace during this difficult time...Teri.