Joined Heart Failure Group for my Hubby.

I have had such good luck with the PD group I joined the Heart failure group to get some support and info about CHF.  My husband is not dealing with this very well and I hope I can get some tips from them on how to make him more comfortable. 
I am feeling a little guilty because I seem to be getting started on a new life direction and he is not along for the ride.  He just seems so lost and sad.  His life has changed so drastically since May 2013.  Nothing is like it was.  How do you get over something like that?
 
I will find a way.
 
Madge.