Jacobs and Maoms adventure into adhd
Today is march13 20011
This will be a jurnal on my thoughts feelings and expernices on My son Jacob Benjamin Feliz Is 7yrs and was born on september 5 2003 Inever felt love before having him. Thought I did with his father who I Do love but, not the pure unconditional love I feel for my son. I wil do anything for him. I will do anything for him to make things alright for him. He struggles everyday with hs ADHD and I hope I will when this battle to make him a stong happy man that is all I want for him to be happy.
Got a call from jacobs school being sent home from school agian he refused to do anything but sit in front office with his head down. I guess it is better then him getting sent for having a total melt down. I am greatful to find this site and hear from other pants that have the same issues at leaste I no longer feel that I am alone and that I just can not parent my son.
Jacob is a beauitful boy who was diganosed about a year ago with adhd I no he smart funny and kind person and also yr behind in school he has little to no selfesteem. I cried very hard when he told me its ok not to have friends its not bad once tou get used to. Its not okay not to have friends he needs them weather he knows it or not.
I put a call into of child therapitst tosee if we can find a happy medium where he can do well in school have friends and still be the wild boy that i love so much the boy who takes apart a solar light so that he can hook it up to his computer is it will have more power,
Today is march 17 2011
I was so happy he had a good day yesterday but today I feel as though my life is falling apart agian got sent home from school agian. I am try to find a child physcitris but no one is calling me back made app for a child physcioglist he wants him off his meds so he can evoulate him . that scares me alot I felt he was doing better on the meds. He only seems to acting up in his resource class now which is a new thing and I think he is feeling really dpressed about it. He will put his head down and not and say he will not do anything. One day he did that while laying on the floor. I think they are not giving him a chance to feel good about he sticks out like a sore thumb.
March 18
I am going to keep him out school while he is off his meds and befor we go to see the child physcicoglist I jus cant deal with anymore bad comments. Because I just dont think he is as bad as the say he is.
Hello kept my son out of school today just did not want to hear anymore bag stuff about him. Called the school princapal about the my son told her it was not a good fit him being in the school all she could talk about was he will be bad whever he is at the ADA dollors he brings into the school. drives me nuts that all she cares about is money. The only good thing that happend was good when i went to pick up his homework from school i was speaking with his teacher and she said he was sorry about what is happening to him she did tell that he dos not behave badly in her class no throwing of books or talking back jus a lack of intrest in school work . Both she and the princapal feel he is getting picked on play ground. i asked her if he is being the school bully and she felt is was not his demenaor to be a bully. now I no that he can work at annoying others but to be bad just cause he wants the attention and to be a part of things.
What I dont understand is that how can the princpal say that he had odb just by refuseing to not do his work in resource and the same behaviors are not happening in the classroom the actual acting out is only happening on the play ground where there is alot less surpervision and being he is so different he will get picked on. My biggest worrie is that he starts pick on other smaller weaker kids to feel better.
This will be a jurnal on my thoughts feelings and expernices on My son Jacob Benjamin Feliz Is 7yrs and was born on september 5 2003 Inever felt love before having him. Thought I did with his father who I Do love but, not the pure unconditional love I feel for my son. I wil do anything for him. I will do anything for him to make things alright for him. He struggles everyday with hs ADHD and I hope I will when this battle to make him a stong happy man that is all I want for him to be happy.
Got a call from jacobs school being sent home from school agian he refused to do anything but sit in front office with his head down. I guess it is better then him getting sent for having a total melt down. I am greatful to find this site and hear from other pants that have the same issues at leaste I no longer feel that I am alone and that I just can not parent my son.
Jacob is a beauitful boy who was diganosed about a year ago with adhd I no he smart funny and kind person and also yr behind in school he has little to no selfesteem. I cried very hard when he told me its ok not to have friends its not bad once tou get used to. Its not okay not to have friends he needs them weather he knows it or not.
I put a call into of child therapitst tosee if we can find a happy medium where he can do well in school have friends and still be the wild boy that i love so much the boy who takes apart a solar light so that he can hook it up to his computer is it will have more power,
Today is march 17 2011
I was so happy he had a good day yesterday but today I feel as though my life is falling apart agian got sent home from school agian. I am try to find a child physcitris but no one is calling me back made app for a child physcioglist he wants him off his meds so he can evoulate him . that scares me alot I felt he was doing better on the meds. He only seems to acting up in his resource class now which is a new thing and I think he is feeling really dpressed about it. He will put his head down and not and say he will not do anything. One day he did that while laying on the floor. I think they are not giving him a chance to feel good about he sticks out like a sore thumb.
March 18
I am going to keep him out school while he is off his meds and befor we go to see the child physcicoglist I jus cant deal with anymore bad comments. Because I just dont think he is as bad as the say he is.
Hello kept my son out of school today just did not want to hear anymore bag stuff about him. Called the school princapal about the my son told her it was not a good fit him being in the school all she could talk about was he will be bad whever he is at the ADA dollors he brings into the school. drives me nuts that all she cares about is money. The only good thing that happend was good when i went to pick up his homework from school i was speaking with his teacher and she said he was sorry about what is happening to him she did tell that he dos not behave badly in her class no throwing of books or talking back jus a lack of intrest in school work . Both she and the princapal feel he is getting picked on play ground. i asked her if he is being the school bully and she felt is was not his demenaor to be a bully. now I no that he can work at annoying others but to be bad just cause he wants the attention and to be a part of things.
What I dont understand is that how can the princpal say that he had odb just by refuseing to not do his work in resource and the same behaviors are not happening in the classroom the actual acting out is only happening on the play ground where there is alot less surpervision and being he is so different he will get picked on. My biggest worrie is that he starts pick on other smaller weaker kids to feel better.
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