J-Man

Talked to J this afternoon.  He didn't come home last night.  Said he fell asleep at his girlfriend parent's house and wasn't feeling well.  I asked what was wrong and he said "withdrawals".  Trying to do this on his own.  I don't think he can, but we have to let him try because I don't want him to shut us out AND I think he needs to see it for himself.
T didn't go to work again today.  No surprise there.  
Oh and then to top things off -  just learned that my father-in-law has prostrate cancer.  When it rains.....