its starting to come out more

I made a dentist appointment for my sons teeth cleaning. Hes been going there for years, every seince he was little and my wife always talked to a girl michelle there. Well i rang yesturday and made the appointment and michelle asked how my wife was, I told her the whole thing,,,she was stunned then she told me that years ago my wife told her she had been molseted by her father....wait..... she told a dental receptionest and not her husband??? no one else??? years ago???? I was stunned, thinks are starting to come out.
 
I was showing my sons girlfriend so ceramics I made in a cabinet and then shower her other art stuff and as looking I noticed a candle on a frame, layed flat . the candle was on a picture of the famialy.. then my son said dad she lost it and he looked at the 4 candles on the table 3 right side up and the fourth upside down, these candles have been melted and burned over the years so the top is not level.
 
The sad thing is I still find stuff like this, like she has been loosing it for some time  but now I just notice it.
 
Its very sad to see

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God sometimes finds way to give answer we need. Some people will dispute this But I trust for your healing these are your answer. God Bless you and your son I hope you stay positve and strong.
mtnlionbait
mtnlionbait

{{HUGS}} The rose colored glasses.... we put them on and then don\'t see the reality around us. I had mine on for 30 years. So sorry for the pain this causes - I know what it\'s like. Part of my moving on process was to go over the entire house - just to get the refinancing done so I could pay my X off, I had to fix it. And while fixing it, I found LOTS of things that I never noticed before - and the stories from friends and neighbors were the worst. It hurts, but at the same time it helps in letting go. Stay strong. {{HUGS}}