its not our job to toughen our children up ... its our job to make the world less heartless"/jl died
"It's not our job to toughen our children up to face a cruel and heartless world. It's our job to raise children who will make the world a little less cruel and heartless.” L.R. Knost
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so, i'm playing on facebook, (what else is new) and i come across people from the resorts that i haven't talked to in 25 years or more. what a surprise. i go a little further still playing, because i know what facebook becomes (mini dramas) and there is an obituary for one of my ex's from like summer after 8th grade. lol. we were mostly penpals in 9th grade. sooooo sad. he was older than me and an athlete and one of the first guys that i was in touch with for a long period of time -- i'd hear from him on and off in the 80's and early 90's. one of my housemates during college made mini dramas from a couple of my ex's in the early 90's and that was the last time i talked to him. i think she was bored with her own life so she figured she'd turn our lives into dramas. (she had bipolar, though i don't count that as an excuse for anything anymore, you either did it or you didn't do it. life is simple, why complicate it).
jl was an athlete, even later on. he was an avid runner that is how i knew it was definitely him. at first i thought no, he's too young to be there. but it new york - new york city and up state which is where he went to college. i keep reading. they have a ghost bike out for him. he was bicycling and was hit and pinned by an suv. the woman was on ambien i think it said and had been drinking beer. she is white. she she got six months and community service and the judge says, that is "making an example" reallllly? SIX MONTHS for vehicular homicide. that is ridiculous.
they have a calendar for bicyclists who are killed now. i'm in shock as i write this. to me, he is the teenage guy i knew summer after 8th grade. it was a big deal because he was older than me. teenage drama. lol. i hoped they would have a photo. his daughter looks like him when he was young. its very sad. it thought to myself, will his son and daughter remember him? probably not. his wife is 3 years older than he is. she is still a widow. now i'm wondering, did people already call me on this, because i do that, block things out until i'm ready to deal with it. what little i recall, is the jerkoff lawyer from down south, causing trouble with it back when i still had my condo down south, and bda causing trouble with it and another old friend of mine, dn. i skipped out for most of it. i let her family handle her. i'm not going to. i think to myself with that, imagine having her for a relative and never being able to get away from it - constantly stalked. i said it to c and he says, you do have that, you have the evil step LT who never goes away. LT compares himself to bif in back to the future 2. he knows he's disgusting and even if we call the cops on him (and we do) he keeps showing up anyway and we're like, WHY are you showing up? we don't know you. go away. the jerkoff lawyer from south florida used to do the same thing along with whoever he hired to harrass, he was like if you don't hire me i will harrass you and have you harrassed permanently. and i'm like and this is a big world and i'll just move. small people like that it doesn't occur to them that you will move to a different country, different state. he still used anything he had to harrass then as well. in nyc, when he showed up it was like, and who invited you and why are you here, hick from the sticks wierdo? there was nothing for him to gain by being like that. he had a list of around 100 of us that he was after, i was in the middle of the list, and in the legal field in addition to the arts, so i think, like bda, he thought it gave him special access. no mister, it doesn't. you are either invited or you aren't invited and you aren't invited. very simple. the stars in their eyes, desparation brigade. aren't you ashamed of yourselves at all?
so the drama of 2014 continues. jl is dead. how the hell did that happen.
love this!
so, i'm playing on facebook, (what else is new) and i come across people from the resorts that i haven't talked to in 25 years or more. what a surprise. i go a little further still playing, because i know what facebook becomes (mini dramas) and there is an obituary for one of my ex's from like summer after 8th grade. lol. we were mostly penpals in 9th grade. sooooo sad. he was older than me and an athlete and one of the first guys that i was in touch with for a long period of time -- i'd hear from him on and off in the 80's and early 90's. one of my housemates during college made mini dramas from a couple of my ex's in the early 90's and that was the last time i talked to him. i think she was bored with her own life so she figured she'd turn our lives into dramas. (she had bipolar, though i don't count that as an excuse for anything anymore, you either did it or you didn't do it. life is simple, why complicate it).
jl was an athlete, even later on. he was an avid runner that is how i knew it was definitely him. at first i thought no, he's too young to be there. but it new york - new york city and up state which is where he went to college. i keep reading. they have a ghost bike out for him. he was bicycling and was hit and pinned by an suv. the woman was on ambien i think it said and had been drinking beer. she is white. she she got six months and community service and the judge says, that is "making an example" reallllly? SIX MONTHS for vehicular homicide. that is ridiculous.
they have a calendar for bicyclists who are killed now. i'm in shock as i write this. to me, he is the teenage guy i knew summer after 8th grade. it was a big deal because he was older than me. teenage drama. lol. i hoped they would have a photo. his daughter looks like him when he was young. its very sad. it thought to myself, will his son and daughter remember him? probably not. his wife is 3 years older than he is. she is still a widow. now i'm wondering, did people already call me on this, because i do that, block things out until i'm ready to deal with it. what little i recall, is the jerkoff lawyer from down south, causing trouble with it back when i still had my condo down south, and bda causing trouble with it and another old friend of mine, dn. i skipped out for most of it. i let her family handle her. i'm not going to. i think to myself with that, imagine having her for a relative and never being able to get away from it - constantly stalked. i said it to c and he says, you do have that, you have the evil step LT who never goes away. LT compares himself to bif in back to the future 2. he knows he's disgusting and even if we call the cops on him (and we do) he keeps showing up anyway and we're like, WHY are you showing up? we don't know you. go away. the jerkoff lawyer from south florida used to do the same thing along with whoever he hired to harrass, he was like if you don't hire me i will harrass you and have you harrassed permanently. and i'm like and this is a big world and i'll just move. small people like that it doesn't occur to them that you will move to a different country, different state. he still used anything he had to harrass then as well. in nyc, when he showed up it was like, and who invited you and why are you here, hick from the sticks wierdo? there was nothing for him to gain by being like that. he had a list of around 100 of us that he was after, i was in the middle of the list, and in the legal field in addition to the arts, so i think, like bda, he thought it gave him special access. no mister, it doesn't. you are either invited or you aren't invited and you aren't invited. very simple. the stars in their eyes, desparation brigade. aren't you ashamed of yourselves at all?
so the drama of 2014 continues. jl is dead. how the hell did that happen.
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today is friday the 13th! uh oh.
I love this!
that\'s so cute!
So sorry to hear about your friend. *HUGS*