It should be a nice day for me
I should be having a good day, the sun is out and it's my birthday. Instead my day starts out with my oldest son calling me on the phone and says this to me " Happy fuck day, bitch" and then hangs up. I get a call from my own mother this morning, she needed to ask a question.....that's all. No happy birthday, not even have a good day.
I know birthday's are not really a big deal when you become an adult but sometimes it's nice if your loved ones would be thinking of you on that day. I have just been having such a hard time lately with depression but it's really hard to get out of it when your own son treats you so badly. My other two son's that live at home aren't any better. I'm constantly called horrible names and they will even do it in front of pulbic, not just behind closed doors.
I could go on and on but it's just makes me cry.
I know birthday's are not really a big deal when you become an adult but sometimes it's nice if your loved ones would be thinking of you on that day. I have just been having such a hard time lately with depression but it's really hard to get out of it when your own son treats you so badly. My other two son's that live at home aren't any better. I'm constantly called horrible names and they will even do it in front of pulbic, not just behind closed doors.
I could go on and on but it's just makes me cry.
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Oh my goodness honey, you need to take yourself out of this situation at least for your birthday. I\'m so sorry. I hope something really good happens for you today. Hugs and Happy Birthday!
My day is getting better but what my son said to me keeps playing in my head over and over again. It\'s just so hard to hear these things from my own kids. I was bullied as a child and thought that would be all in the past once I got married and had children. It just did not work out that way.
Can you believe that CPS has come to my door in the past about my kids and if I was abusing them but once they got here they were more concerned about my safety. Anyway they have all been through the court system for assulting me, more then once.
Ok enough of that.....it\'s my birthday. My mom took me to lunch, she just forgot about it when she called so that\'s why she didn\'t say anything. My boys did surprise me while I was gone they cleaned house and did the dishes so all in all it\'s getting better.Thanks for the birthday wishes.
don\'t let anybody talk to you like that! i am so sorry. happy belated birthday to you! go hug a kitty? it always helps me when this world seems too sad. well, it helps most of the time...i am going to load some pics today. i hope that you have time to look. love to you.