It's over

It's over,  my babies didn't make.  I got my period before I even have my first beta. I'm so sad just like that back to the beggining. I called my doctor the best they could is give me an appoiment for nov 19th!!!! to see what went wrong after begging they agreed to give me a phone appoinment for Nov 4th, so I have to wait over two weeks just to try to understand. I can't believe it I knew that this could happend but still my heart aches so bad. 

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I am so sorry to hear of your loss. *Hugs*
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I am so very sorry. I really hate that they always seem to make us wait so long after a failed cycle for a follow up appointment or even a phone conversation. Don\'t they understand that we hurt so bad that we just need to talk with the doctor even if they don\'t have any real answers for us? I will pray for some peace to fill your heart over the next few weeks and that when you do talk with your doctor they have some answers and a new plan in place for you. {{{{HUG}}}}
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I am so sorry marcela!! I truly feel your loss and pain. It\'s not easy, but it does get better! My follow-up isn\'t until the first week of Nov because my dr had to go out of town for 3 darn weeks! She says that our bodies need 4-6 weeks to recover before another cycle should be started. I\'m here for you. Your in my thoughts and prayers! (((HUGS)))
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I got my period before my first beta also, it sucks. I am so sorry it didn\'t work out this time. Keep on going you will be a mama soon!
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I\'m sorry. As you prob. already know, the same thing happened to me. After everything settles, reassess and see what path you want to take. For us, we have 2 blastocysts frozen. At this point, I\'m trying to lose between 25-45 pounds to give our final try the best chance possible. This is such an emotionally draining process. Just try to get some rest and do what it takes to ease your emotions. I\'ll be thinking of you.
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I am so sorry and know how you feel. You are in my thoughts and prayers.