It's been busy today

Hi friends, just seems  my day has gone by so fast today. We have been busy today, well sorta, we finally got up and got dressed for lunch at 11:30 met our friends and then we just sorta ran around shopping looking for something I want.
I want to sleep right now, but got somewhere to go so I don't have time to even write today.  Some say that is good.  I don't know but I have missed talking to you my friendsl 
As I said yesterday, it was a good birthday.  I still was missing my son and hearing his voice, but he did send me my sign.
Oh and if you heard about my other sign it took me two weeks to figure it out.  I had a thought that popped in my mind Like I need a Sign.. Then on a billboard there were the words in Large Black Letter "DO YOU NEED A SIGN"
One day at the hospital  I had said to my son's wife, I just want to hear his voice even if it is he is frustrated about something and sounds a bit grouchy.  Well, that was his sign that week to me, Like, Geez mom, I'm okay  what do you need a sign.  Cause now for 3 time passing that billboard it is still there and they are all over town but there are not words like I saw that one Sunday, so it took me 2 weeks to figure out that was my Kenny saying mom you know I'm okay now.
Love you my son Kenny,  Love mom
 
Sandi
 
 
 

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deleted_user
deleted_user

Your doing great..I understand how deep the scars are..They will heal and not be quite so prominent. I know as my Dad is always with me and it sounds like your son is too.
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deleted_user

I am so proud of you... love to you my friend..
deleted_user
deleted_user

Hope you have a peaceful week. hugs j
biowoman
biowoman

Love that sign!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user

Enjoy your signs from your precious son. I hope you have a wonderful week. Wendy
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Glad you had a good day, and the \"sign\" has lifted your spirits. Mine is the continued #13 - every day - some how, some where - again today while my son Josh & I were out - taking care of more issues over his fathers death. Peace to you angel, hope you enjoy your evening too.
ihart
ihart

Sandi,
Busy is sometimes good as long as you meet your needs to grieve. I think sometimes we like being busy so we do not have time to think and we have to go through the grief to get to the other side. Not saying that is what you are doing but I have certainly found myself doing that at times.
Glad you are getting the signs you are needing. I am never good at signs so if I am getting them I am totally missing it and I am ok with that. I know my son is ok and I know I will see him again , just a question of when. Hugs, Inga