Is it me?

I don't know if it's me, or if other people just don't understand?  On the outside, people just see a shy person that sits in the back of the room and doesn't talk to anyone unless spoken to.  Even then, it usually isn't much.  I don't know if they think I'm dumb or a jerk or what?   What people don't see, though, is what's on the inside. I'm fun, loving, goofy, serious when need be.  I love to talk, especially things about life.  I really love to cuddle just to cuddle.  If I could do this 24/7 I definetly would.  I'm am like the nicest person ever.  I just wish there was a way for people to see this in me and not just think I'm the shy person that doesn't do anything. 

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deleted_user
deleted_user

Hi Hun. Maybe what you need to do is to try and show people this side of you that you want people to know. If what people are seeing isn\'t the real you, then show them who you are. People react to what they see. So show them this funny and neat person and you will attract the kind of people you want to be around instead of who\'s actually there! Take care Hun.
standbyme
standbyme

I understand what you mean, I\'m a genuinely shy person who has a touch of social anxiety. I think that sometimes people mistake my quietness for arrogance but that is certainly not the case. I open up more to the people who are kind enough to get to know me.