In Search of a Miracle!!!!!

I love my country and all of my soldiers. The one problem I have though is that the government don't seem to want the families to stay together. It is almost as if though we the parents looses our children once they are off to BCT, yes we get letters here and there, however, in order for us to attend their graduation, we have to pay our own way. If we get there a couple of days before, its like we don't even get to see our children. What be the purpose of traveling so far and paying all that expenses, when the main person you come to see, cannot be seen except for two days. Hotel/Motel rooms are extremely expensive now adays. So why don't the military build hotels/motels for the families of these soldiers to stay. Knowing that some of them get married young, and some have elderly parents or young parents that just wants to spend quality time with them knowing that they will not get to see them again for a long while. Besides what about the sisters and brothers that want to see how these soldiers are doing. You never know maybe one of them are looking to follow in their big brother or big sister footsteps. I hope that the military can get things right and stop selling unnecessary items to these soldiers and help them to reconnect them with their families instead of just giving them militant training only. Everyone deserves to be love, and if the love ones do not know where they are going and how to get there, for the appropriate ceremonies than what good is it that our babies, husbands, wives becomes soldiers.