In need of advice
Let me start by saying i have NO intention of striking up a convo at all. However, he txted me again today - hello i hope you r ok
Now my initial gut reaction is to delete. I have no soft spot here and dont think for a minute he is sincere. I personally feel he is trying to show me a "soft, caring side"
Right now, you all know how i am totally struggling w the guilt of what I've done. Part of me wants to reply w - no. I am not ok. I am struggling by myself beyond your wildest dreams to deal with what I've done.
But the bigger part of me is saying dont bother replying. He's just fishing. Ignoring is the only way.
I realize everytime he txts there is a paper trail. Is he THAT stupid???? UGH!!!
Now my initial gut reaction is to delete. I have no soft spot here and dont think for a minute he is sincere. I personally feel he is trying to show me a "soft, caring side"
Right now, you all know how i am totally struggling w the guilt of what I've done. Part of me wants to reply w - no. I am not ok. I am struggling by myself beyond your wildest dreams to deal with what I've done.
But the bigger part of me is saying dont bother replying. He's just fishing. Ignoring is the only way.
I realize everytime he txts there is a paper trail. Is he THAT stupid???? UGH!!!
Replies
notmyself1....good for you, delete is the best, because then you can forget, and he gets no reward, he is baitng you, you are stronger than that....I ask right by the power of our Lord and savior that he give you the amount of strength you need to do what is right at this moment, one moment at a time, one delete at a time....you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you, I have faith in you
Can you delete without reading? You are right, he is fishing. Also, if your husband ever decides to look at cell phone records and sees all the texts, he will notice that now it is all one-sided. It just may save you.
Another thing, I struggled with wanting to tell him how I felt all the time while we were still together. Eventually I told myself not to bother because he doesn\'t really care.
Thanks shegavehim :)
I deleted. And deep down had no intention of responding. Just want to make sure it was the right thing as opposed to leaving him hanging.
But as you say Red - the txts will be one-sided. Which is good. And i have already told him i want to work on my M and we talked this past January about how wrong it is, we\'re not leaving our M and just let it go....well more like i told him all of that and he replied by asking me to be his gf again .... *Sigh*
Ya cant get through to a person like that i suppose.
Thanks guys for being here for me.
And yes i can delete without reading. But the 1st line of a txt is visible when a txt comes thru. So when its short like that i can see the whole message.