In Love with an Islander

I'm 26. I just got out of a 3 and a half year relationship with an alcoholic and now I am starting over. I have been celibate for 6 months now and everything is going great. I feel stronger, more confident, and beautiful. My career is taking off too. I became celibate to focus on me and become closer to God. So far I've been able to do that. But now I've started talking to a handsome and Christian man from Haiti. He's so kind and intelligent but I'm extremely attracted to him. It's hard to control my sexual urges. We have had a few video chats that went too far. I want to control my sexual urges. Any advice on that?  Any feedback would be appreciated. Thanks in advance.