Im trying so hard to be posative today
He called me yesterday after texting me the night before saying he had a lot of crap going on in his head and what a lucky escape i had getting away from him.And now im starting to believe him.he then went on to tell me his ex says she dosent want the ivorce to go through and she thinks about him all the time.oh and apparently she slept with someone 6weeks ago but straight away realised it was a mistake.Why would he tell me this? is it not enough that he broke my heart but he seems to want to jump up and down on it.Im really trying to stay posative and think of all the reasons i dont want to be with him but im still getting the odd moments.I havent heard from him since and i think this is a good thing because i struggle with not responding.
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I\'m so sorry you\'re having a tough time, it is so hard I know, they completely shatter your heart but won\'t give you chance to heal and move on either!
No contact is definitely the best thing, and believe me I know how hard that is, I\'m still trying now and I can only tell you what friends keep telling me, he has hurt you and you don\'t deserve it, better things will be round the corner, just give yourself plenty of time, I always find good friends with tough shoulders to cry on always helps. I hope you have someone that you can confide in who can bring a smile to your face, but you always have friends here aswell.
Thank you soooo much,you are so right no contact is the way to go.I have wonderful friends and my best friend has been my rock.she was with me all through my marriage break up so she is so mad that this guy has treated me this way.big hugs to you .jackie.xx