im so depressed

i dont know why but today i really miss him.he has obviously moved on and dosent think of me in the sae way,but why does it have to be so hard.im trying not to think of the good tmes but i cant help it.i just want this all to be over and to feel normal again,to get rid of this knot in my stomache.

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deleted_user
deleted_user

I know the feeling, that is what i seem to do, think of the best bits, i think everyone does who is left behind but those that leave seem to have no feelings & we want them to feel as we do. They shut themselves down emotionally, everytime he thinks of you he will snap himself out of it & wont deal with his feelings, it catches up with them in the end but by the time it hits them it is too late & the damage is done. He hasnt had time to miss you yet, it might seem all nice & new to him at the moment but when he has been there a few weeks or months he will be home sick, put on a happy face & show him you\'re doing fine without him (fake it till you make it as they say) (((hugs))) to you.

Louise
nix192
nix192

thankyou louise,i do hope you are right.i hope he realises he misses us but hopefully i will have moved on and it will be his turn to get hurt.xxx