IF WISHES CAME TRUE

Hi everyone, you all say so many nice comments to my journal's.  Today I am very very sad , but that is not what I am going to write about.
My thoughts today outside of what I am going through today is If Wishes Came True.  If wishes came true my first wish we be that we who are going through so much pain such as the loss of a husband, the loss of a child, the loss of a parent, just a LOSS would never Happen.
My wish today is:  My Son Kenny was alive and well.
My Wish for all of you today is:  What ever your are hurting, had never happened.
My Wish for all of us that people who treat us bad WOULD GROW UP or go away.
My wish for all of us that Mean, Hateful People didn't would go away!!!
My Wish is that Life was always Happy and Pain was never so deep as it is,,,that our family members would all be helpful, and not want so much from you when you feel you have given all you can.
My wish is I could help everyone, and my wish is that I was not so depleted myself that I don't even know how to help myself at times.
I Wish that there were not others (not in this group) who think they are better than everyone else
I wish that there were others(not in this group) who knew how to care for people.
I wish there were others(not in this group)would not try to hurt others.
I wish for all that Life was just full of Happiness.
I wish that wishes ALL came true!!!!!
But if wishes came true, you and me would not be here, and we may have never met, then again someway our paths would have passed and we could have become friends, but not for the reason that we are here.  
And since wishes do not come true than we are thankful  in this group of DS that someone took the time to set it up so we could share our burdens and pain and cry and laugh with each other.
To the one or ones who keep this place of comfort going I wish for you a Happy Day and that is one wish that I think can come true.  You deserve so very much more for bringing  this site to us who are needing someone to lean on, someone to support us and someone hopefully we can help in our daily struggles with our pain and disappointments in life.  If wishes came true life would be so much better.
So maybe someday in another time another life, it will be a life of Wishes That COME True.
Sandi

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deleted_user

Sandi life sucks a lot of the time. We truly don\'t enjoy the good times. But we are so luckly to have had them. I wish I could put my arms around so many people here. I wonder why so many people are so cold. A freind told me that when she and her husband broke up the neighbour/friend said anything I can do to help a shoulder to cry on blah de blah.. she basically never saw the friend again. Here it is different. We are outside the box and we see things a bit differently. Perhaps, jaded but we are here. It really helps to vent and to cry. Remember we are crying with you.. Big Hugs..Cath
denicew
denicew

Very nice comment,2nd strike. Sandi,you sound like you\'re hurting right now.Just remember that our choices matter.Continue to be kind,understanding and strong.It may be 10 years down the road that some child or some person will say to you that they were able to be stronger because of you and the way that you have handled yourself in such hard times.
Livingjuicy
Livingjuicy

Thank you for sharing your wishes with us. It is healthy to dream, to wish, to ponder... I believe we can all learn and continue to grow in love and kindness. Thank you for this window into how you are feeling and for caring enough to articulate what is in your heart. If we could all continue to remember to be gentle stewards with ourselves and one another I believe many of our wishes might become our reality. I hope we can all continue to dream \"BIG!\" We are here for one another and that is a constant. Hugs to you, Joanie
deleted_user
deleted_user

I wish you a peaceful day. hugs j
deleted_user
deleted_user

All very true. Peace, Barb.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Thank you my love have a wonderful day..
deleted_user
deleted_user

Your Words hit a homerun.. definitely
ihart
ihart

I wish for you a happy day. Hugs, Inga