Idiot

I'm such an idiot.
Poking around on Amazon I went looking for a friend's wishlist.  Well, yeah, brilliant, I decided to see if OW had a Wishlist.  Ya can tell a lot about a person by the crap they put on their list, ya know?
Stupid.  Stupidstupid.  Not much there, except a case for a Macbook Pro (this irks me because I suspect this means she also has an iPad and/or iPhone and could send messages to H via iMessage without my knowledge) and ... guess what?
A new couch.  Added the month after H *finally* broke all contact.
Gee, I guess she needed to get rid of the fuckstains on the couch if she wasn't keeping him?
I hate her.
I hate me for looking.  I'm an idiot.  I should have known that anything on the list would turn into some big story in my head and cause problems.  I really had thought the compulsion to know more about her was over.  Guess not.

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znzsmom
znzsmom

Honey...been there, done that. I found all of her wishlists on the internet, including her \"wedding\" registry for her and her lesbian lover. Yep...there is A LOT you can learn about someone by her wishlist. My favorite of her items was her shapewear she put on her Walmart wishlist...I guess she needed something to suck in her stomach after her huge weight gain! LOL Don\'t sweat it. This too shall pass! Hugs.
deleted_user
deleted_user

I found a blog entry detailing the exotic vacation she was planning for her \"taboo friend\". She chatted about it too. All these botanical gardens to visit (she fancies herself a botonist since she works for a garden store running a register and making deliveries). She would only settle for a hotel with hammocks so they could \"nap in the breeze\". Blech!

If I go to Hawaii I\'m just taking the kids.
znzsmom
znzsmom

Oh yes, I also learned that the OW is very enlightened...she is an expert on the Real Housewives of NJ and NY and the Kardashians. I finally just got to the point where I realized that I learned all I needed to know about the loser. Basically, she\'s an emotional adolescent. The more I search and read her crap, the more I kept her in my life. You\'ll get to a point of saturation and you won\'t need it anymore. I will admit though that I saved her latest ugly pic from FB so I can look at it every so often and have a good laugh. It just reminds me that she in no way has anything over me and that my H was truly in a state of temporary insanity...or stupidity...or blindness...or all of the above! lol
deleted_user
deleted_user

Yup, I did this. OWs is all Spanish music that she added two days before Hs birthday last year. He\'s Hispanic and bilingual. She\'s all white, born and raised and still living in a place where zero Spanish music is played. Of course I the looked up and translated all the lyrics because I apparently enjoy twisting the knife in my back now and then... (Allora). Sorry she even had one for you to find. But most likely she was just redecorating because she was so distraught he didn\'t choose her.