Ideas please

This will be the first holiday without DH, and my daughter and I will be going for our family picture.  I have been thinking that I really would like 2 have DH in it with us some how.  Does anyone have any idea what I could do to make it a good FAMILY picture as in my heart we are still a family.  Update to my weight, I have lost 20 pds and that is where it has stopped.  I did eat some Oreos over this past weekend, but before I would have eaten the whole bag, this time I only ate 10 and this was over the whole weekend.   I am dealing with debt as most of us, it is getting really bad with DHs hospital bills and I have never missed payments which this past month I did.  I feel as though I let DH down. I may have to look into Bankruptsy, which Kills me as DH would have never wanted this for me.  I pray that something happens for me.  Christmas for Aubrey WILL be GREAT as I will make sure of this. I pray that the holidays will bring peace to all and to all of my GREAT friends on DS I LOVE YOU ALL