i wish things were different.

im just wish things could be different so much. like with just everything in life. but since i know they will never change, i have to find a way to be completely happy. instead of just going back and forth all the time. im trying so much to do this but its so hard.

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loveblue2
loveblue2

How do you know they won\'t change? (And, by that, I assume you mean won\'t get better?) The way you choose to look at your problems has a lot to do with how they continue to manifest themselves, hon. In other words, nothing good can or ever will come from having a pessimistic attitude about your future.

Sometimes, when we feel so bad about ourselves, it helps to just step outside of ourselves and help someone else...even when we\'re convinced that we\'re in most need of the help. Also, having hobbies and activities we enjoy helps too.

I know it\'s hard. I remember how lost I felt when I was your age. This crazy economy we\'re living in certainly doesn\'t help. But, we still have a LOT to be thankful for.

Perception is everything, hon. The bright spots are there. Just keep looking for them.

Hugs,
Janice : )
lizzyrose
lizzyrose

i know it is hard but just take one day at a time
and i am always here to talk if you need to talk

lizzy
deleted_user
deleted_user

WE BOTH BELONG TO THE LIFE PILOT GROUP. I READ YOUR POST THERE, AND WAS WONDERING IF YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENED TO THE ORIGINAL FOUNDER?

BUT THERE IS ANOTHER REASON I CONTACTED YOU. I SEE YOU ARE IN PENNSYLVANIA. I WAS THERE IN JULY. LATROBE. MY GRANDKIDS LIVE THERE. PENN. IS A BEAUTIFUL STATE. I LIVE IN CALIFORNIA. A BEAUTIFUL STATE THAT IS BEING DESTROYED BY ITS POLITICIANS.

STARRY NIGHT IS ONE OF MY FAVORITE PAINTINGS. ALSO ONE OF MY FAVORITE SONGS. DON MACLEAN. BE WELL, STARRYNIGHTSKY!
theletter12
theletter12

Yes life can be hard - but you just have to try and believe things can get better or the problem you are currently facing will pass quickly. Try and concentrate on the good things in your life - even the small things. Try and treat yourself good!

starry night is also one of my favorite songs by Don Maclean.