I win

he got awarded my attorney fees on top of his own. has to pay back pay for daycare, and daycare is included in each monthly child support payment. his option of wanting to do things the hard way cost him around 5000 bucks. ha ha. and he has to take a parenting class, and have 8 CONSECUTIVE visits with her before he can have unsupervised time. and the judge looked at him and said, you will not just feed her, you will interact with her, play with her, and make eye contact. and said you WILL see her, this week, BEFORE you leave to go out to sea. lol, matt didnt want to see her till he got back in december. and he isnt set up for the parenting class till january, so she will be at least 1 yrs old before he will have any time with her, and that is IF he completes what he needs to. the judge didnt care about him getting ready to go on deployment, he didnt fall for the hide behind the navy excuse. sure, they work hard, and they often times work long hours, but, many people in the navy have time for children, and families. because they make time, because children and families are, and should be, important to someone who is leaving so often. i just hope he can be civil after this.  it will go one of two ways, ither he will be so pissed off he cant get over it, or he will be humbled, eat shit, get over it, and talk like an ADULT. however this does put a damper on my lpans to move to arizona, if he does what he is suposed to. i have to give him a year, and i wanted to move in april next year.so now it all has to wait. ill figure it out somehow. i will be highly surprised if he does everything he is suposed to.   the crunch is over.... things are looking up, finally. thanks to everyone who has kept up with me, i know i havent been around much  

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YIP-eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee....

Lots and lots of kisses and hugs!

This is the best news of the morning for me! Oh happy day! I knew it would work out for the best, and you are the best!

Love you, Robin
Bluesydeb
Bluesydeb

I\'m happy for you sweetie! Hugs to you and Ariyah (did I spell that right?)
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Congratulations! Best wishes to you all! :-)
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This is WONDERFUL news! I am so happy for you, hon!
DianneE
DianneE

Wtg!!!!!!!!!!
So happy for you that you stuck to your guns and did not let him off the hook!!!
You and your daughter deserve everything you won and more!

Hopefully he will \"man up\" and grow up...but the past is the best predictor of the future. I guess you can prepare for the worst but hope for the best as far as he is concerned....

Hugs, Dianne