I started a new life today Brad....
I started a new life today.All of the bills are now in my name and I closed all of Brads accounts.I am getting swamped with Brads bills and I am sorry kiddies...I am not responbilse for them.He made them.Brad spent a lot of money on stuff that noone would believe and I just cant do it.I have now income to last me for quite some time and I had to give away some of his clothes.This is suicide.Suicide may relieve pain..but it is people who survive that have to clean up the mess.And it has been a mess.I thought that Brad loved me.After what he has put me thru...he did not love me and probably never knew the whole concept of love.Men view marriage and love different.Believe me I know.And none else is taking Brads place.I am worn out and I mean it..no more men.
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I know exactly what you mean. We lost our home to foreclosure, 50,000 in savings, ran up several credit cards and he gave our two dogs away before completing suicide. I had to file bankruptcy and then I had spinal surgery in June. Living on workman\'s compensation is not easy. I still believe there are good, decent men out there. Many of them are members of DS. I believe they did love us. They were sick. I have to believe Shawn loved me or I would not be able to go on. I hope you find some peace and things start getting better for you. {{{{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}}}} Debbie
Hi Vader, I guess you have to do to get past the pain, but I also agree with Debbie, there are still some good men out there, so you do whatever you feel you need to do, it sounds like your on the right road. Hugs and love to you.
Bev
i know that there are some nice guys..but where are they? Right now...i do need a break and so do my cats.I still have to get past the pain and it is hard.Thanks to all who replied.thanks.vader.