I saw him

My beautiful daughter got married last week. She looks just like I did at her age. Long blond wavy hair, blue eyes, slim.....but she is 5'11" and I am 5'5". It was a wonderful outdoor wedding. Except for my ex being there. My daughter and her husband paid for the entire wedding themselves. My ex paid for nothing and did nothing. In fact, he brought intentionally uninvited guests with him. His brother and wife. His brother molested me and my ex watched about 25 years ago. My daughter didn't want them there....he also molested her. Since they were partycrashers I thought they should at least pay for their meals and/or bring a nice present! I kept away from my ex and nlaws. At one point my ex grabbed me by the arm and I jerked it away and walked off without a word. That felt good. I am so frightened of him still. I new he would punish me somehow and he did.....he is not sending me my support this month.


I'm glad it's over. I almost didn't go but am thankful I did.

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CowgirlKathi
CowgirlKathi

jljlost: Your daughter's wedding was an occasion for pure joy -- so sorry that your X behaved like a total social BOOR! That's no reflection on you, my dear. I'm sure you know that. As far as him punishing you by withholding support, make a call to your attorney. Some of these narcissist-types need to KNOW that is NOT acceptable! Stand strong and hang tough!