I'm so done with my family.
So done with my family. im so sick of the favoritism that goes on with them verses me, ( them favoring my siblings over me, mainly my brother over me) It hurts me so much! I can't wait to move away from them for good! and I hope I can meet a new family so they can become my replacement family.
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so sorry to hear this
I am sorry you are feeling this way. My parents all ways favored my one brother. It not his fault he actually is a good guy. But its not right. A lot of families look normal or better on the out side. A childhood friend of mine was shocked to hear how messed up my life was. He said I thought you had the perfect family all these year,Wow he said.
I\'m sorry your hurting this way, I hope and pray it gets better for you. hugs
Sounds like you are in a real sucky situation. sorry to hear it. Hugs
As the youngest and the only girl, my brothers always thought I was favored, or spoiled. I always felt ignored and left out. Funny how that works out.
No family is perfect. All families argue, and all families have moments when they feel as if they hate each other. However, if there is love there. If there are still moments when you look around and say, gosh I love my family, then count yourself lucky and try to recall those moments in the times that are rough.
One of the things I wish I\'d done as a kid was to speak up. Talk to your family, with out wining or accusing and simply state the facts. \"I feel as if I am left out. I feel as if I am not as loved as my siblings and I need to hear it. I need for you to show me that I matter too.\" Avoid using \"You make me feel\" instead use \"I feel\" statements, it makes it less confrontational and avoids them going into the defensive.
If they can\'t respond to your request in a positive and intelligent matter then, just remember, you didn\'t get to choose them. You got stuck with them. Choose the people you have in your wisely and always treat them the way you want to be treated.
Good luck to you. I hope you feel better soon.
It\'s hard to feel like the least liked person in the family, I know that feeling very well. My family rates worth on income and I\'m BY FAR at the bottom of that ladder. I\'ve found a few things very helpful as I\'ve been struggling with this myself: Finding the people who ARE in my corner, sure, it\'s not as many people as I would LIKE to be cheering me on, and I have some people that I get really upset at because they are not but I am so happy to have my brother, one of my uncles, a great aunt and a grandfather who do stand behind me, no matter what. Doesn\'t make having neither of my parents come close to that category not hurt anymore, but, it reminds me that I do have cheerleaders. I\'m also working on being comfortable with myself and who I am to believe that even if (and it\'s very likely) my mom never, ever accepts me (I don\'t have a relationship with my dad anymore- toxic human being!) I will find people who will, and I want them to accept me for who I am, not who my mother wishes I was. I don\'t know how helpful this is but, just my thoughts. Hope you\'re feeling better today.
your comments have helped and mean a lot to me, :o) im getting through it and trying to have a more positive outlook on this.