I'm not sure what to make of this

Last night, he was being his normal arrogant, ignorant, disrespectful self. I tried, I really did, not to engage with him and not to allow him to upset me. He kept calling me and hanging up on me when I would ask him for instance what time he was coming home, or why he couldn't answer the phone when I called him. He screamed at me that he didn't care what I think, what I want, what I need, etc. I just ignored it. Finally, he gets home at around 11 PM, I'm in bed, so he makes as much noise as he can sitting on the couch, eating his Wendy's food (surprise, he bought his own dinner tonight so I didn't have to get up. Actually I think he feels this is a punishment to me...see, I'm so mad at you I won't even let you cook for me kind of thing. He then starts yelling through the house, "Could you come get your f'ing dog so I can eat!" So I do, I put her in bed with me (she's a 3 pound, 2.5 month old chihuahua/Pomeranian/yorkie mix so she's just an itty bitty thing). He then comes in the bathroom and informs me that she cannot sleep in the bed. (He's the one who started her sleeping in there, but suddenly she's an annoyance because she takes from his attention from me he says). Anyway, I take her back in the living room. I'm exhausted at this point, it's after 12. I have to stay with her because if I go back to bed she keeps everyone up scratching and crying at he doors. 
About 20 minutes after I go to living room he comes out and does his best scary pimp impression. "Oh I see, this is how it's gonna be now? You on the couch and me alone?" I try to calmly explain to him that I'm not sure what the hell else he wants me to do, if she cries he's mad. She was sleeping in the bed but he doesn't want her in there anymore. He starts yelling at me that this has been going on for a week and he's not going to have it in his house. I stand bio and tell him let's go talk in the room as our D is awake I the other room. I Saudi something to him as I brushed past and he then gets in my face, forehead to forehead as hard as he can and shouts at me to get out of his face!! Wtf?! Then I took my hands and pushed him away from me and tried to egg into the room. He blocks the door, literally, and won't move while he's telling me not to f'ing touch him! This brings our ad out who now gets into the melee. Finally get her to agree to stay in the living room so I can have a convo with her dad.
 
i ask him point blank if he has ever exchanged messages, pictures, or talked with another woman who was not related. He finally replies, "I mean I may have". Won't give specifics, says he would have to know what I was talking about. I tell him he's evading, he pretends to misunderstand. So, I say, let me see your phone and I'll show you what I'm talking about. He is very hesitant, as in he won't actually let me touch his phone, but holds it while he quickly scrolls through pics and messages. There are about 20 photos of me, sleeping, naked, posed in various positions on his phone. There is also a video of him doing something yo me while I sleep, but I couldn't watch this at this point he chose to exert his superior strength and I could see no more. Told me I must be a sick person to want to watch that, what did that turn me on or something? I said I found it disturbing that he had these pictures, etc of me and he said "well you let me take them" For God's sake I was sleeping! I sleep like the dead and he knows it, I did NOT LET him take them, and wth is he doing with them. In his downloads he also has a video of a girl masturbating, although he tried to convince me he has no idea which one of his cousins sent him this as he's always getting them. WTF does he think that makes him sound better? Or that I was born yesterday?
anyway, long night trying to calm my D who was in disrespect mode too, process this weirdness, and I slept on couch with dog again. Great night!