I\'m here to visit

Well, here's the run down of the past month:1.  Joined Spark People (wight loss website) on Jan 7 and have lost 13 lbs so far.  2.  Ended high school swim season and have 3 more weeks of middle school to go3.  Spanky and Rayna broke up about 3 weeks or so ago.  He saw me at my work 2 weeks ago and booty called me.  I went of course.  Haven't heard anything since.  He seems to be going thru the feelings of loss, depression and "what am I going to do now".  He wasn't there for me when he put me thru that so I will sit back and not rush in to save him from all of it.  He is a big boy and needs to learn thru his mistakes.  He knows where to find me.  I AM NOT going back to being needy and desperate for his attention. I love him and always will but he needs to get to the point where if he wants me, he wants me for good.  We would definately be a power couple and could get thru anything but he wants to be that person first and find a way to crawl out of the hole that he is in.  4.  Started talking to hottie swim coach from Southport.  He is only 29.  Cradle robber!!!!  He has issues though.  Don't really know how to take him.  He has a psycho girlfriend that I obviously don't get along with (she's competition and she definately knows I am).  He said he was thinking about breaking it off but just hasn't done it.  She is his problem though, not mine.  He has to figure out what he wants and get on the ball!!  I won't play stupid games with him.5.  work, work, work is all I do!!  At least I still have my job(s)!Thats about it for the hi light reel~~~