and only YOU can allow her to do that, right? I hope to gosh you won\'t let someone who treated you like shit won\'t let you feel destroyed. You are stronger than this . You ARE. you might not feel it now, but you are. do NOT GIVE HER THE POWER to destroy the loving, kind, good man you are.
I have to say too that LuvMyTitans is right... my experience has been that if there are immediate difficulties, that person is not the correct match. Most of all, you have to love yourself, learn to be content with who you are, and when the right match comes, that person will ENHANCE you, not destroy you. As you recover from this loss, think about the things that kept conflicting and keep those in mind when you begin dating again so you won\'t find yourself with repeating this with someone who\'s just like this one.
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and only YOU can allow her to do that, right? I hope to gosh you won\'t let someone who treated you like shit won\'t let you feel destroyed. You are stronger than this . You ARE. you might not feel it now, but you are. do NOT GIVE HER THE POWER to destroy the loving, kind, good man you are.
sorry for the strong comment. but I\'ve known you a long time and I got frustrated. I\'m sorry.
I have to say too that LuvMyTitans is right... my experience has been that if there are immediate difficulties, that person is not the correct match. Most of all, you have to love yourself, learn to be content with who you are, and when the right match comes, that person will ENHANCE you, not destroy you. As you recover from this loss, think about the things that kept conflicting and keep those in mind when you begin dating again so you won\'t find yourself with repeating this with someone who\'s just like this one.