I'm a bitch
so once again I am the bad guy according to everyone including middle son who used to love me. husband snoring. I can't sleep. Been two years. Depression worse. Crying jags worse.
I got fed up when he started snoring all night long two nights in a row and tried to wake him up by hitting him with the covers. He left and slept downstairs. Well he decided to keep sleeping downstairs. But makes cracks like "well I haven't been using the bedroom much".
I told middle son I didn't ask him to leave. He says I drove him out with my complaining about not sleeping all the time. SO sorry. Living on 4 hours of sleep and getting woken up by a freight train 3-4 times a night is not fun. Docs say he has to lose weight to stop snoring, but he is not even trying. So I am the bitch. All my fault for not being able to sleep through the noise.
But then everything is my fault.
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Hi Paulinna..I'm sorry to hear about the sleep troubles.Sleep is so important and just makes it so hard to try and be positive when your sleep deprived.$ hours of sleep is no where near enough.I wish your hubby wouldnt be angry with you .If he could try and understand than the 2 of you could talk about possible solutions.Has he had a sleep study? If he has sleep apnea,thean he might need a c-pap machine.My father was always such a loud snorer and when he was almost 60 he was diagnosed with sleep apnea.he got a c-pap machine and his life long headaches went away!There has to be some solution..your not a bitch at all! your just exhausted and have been for a while now!Does running a fan or something with white noise help? I am such a light sleeper theres no way I could sleep with loud snoring!truthfully middle son should stay out of it..but I know you are close to him and care if hes upset..:(......Hope things get better for you soon and hubbie trieds to find a solution with you soon.. hugs xx