I Know Why I Like this Girl that I Like

She reminds me of my brother who passed away of colon cancer...in female form, 20 years younger, when he was happier and healthier.  I'm debating whether I should tell her this.  I don't want to creep her out, but she too lost her father to cancer (lymphoma) when she was 8, and I think I remind her of her father.  This is definitely a deeper attachment than sex or even romance, and I really think it's God and my brother's intervention.  He knows I miss him, so he's guiding me toward another like him.  What to do about this is another matter...I guess be friends with her!  I think, if I told her this, she would trust me as a guy who doesn't just want to get into her pants, even though she has a beautiful body...it goes deeper than that.