i just got told that love is impossible...

okay so my bf just told me that love is an impossibe emotion and that you cant feel it. and that he has no clue what he feels about me. by saying that he pretty much broke my heart into a million peices. we're not broken up... yet but by the sounds of what he said it pretty much sounds like he wanted to end it.. i have no idea why... i haven't done anything wrong and i love him with all my heart. i mean i just don't get how he can say that love is impossible. he was the one who said i love you first and who says i love you back everytime i say it to him. if it's so impossible to love than how come he was able to say it then?

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Timster
Timster

Maybe there\'s something going on in his life that makes him think differently about your relationship. He could be doubting himself, or has too much to juggle around and doesn\'t know what to do.
orichila
orichila

He may have said it on impulse or said it because he thought that is what everyone says, especially if you have been intimate. And not everyone truley knows what love is and means. Unfortunately you make get your heart broken several more times before you find someond who feels the same as you. Women are from Venus and men are from Mars, have you heard this or read the book, it\'s true! They think totally different than we do and communicating with one can be tiring and a good day! LOL! What you say and what he hears is so not the same thing. Good luck! : )
orichila
orichila

Whoa! Sorry about the typos! Forgot to proof read! LOL! I think and talk way faster than I can type! Hope you can figure it out. If not ask me to clarify, I will be happy to ablige. : P