I just about give up on relatives

No matter how hard my husband and I try to be good to our relatives, we just keep getting kicked.  I don't want to see any of them anymore.  It's not worth the pain and frustration to have to deal with the arrogance and the power hungry in the family.  That's not family to us.  Our friends treat us better than family.  At least I still have my dad left.  He's the only sane one on my side.  On my husband's side, my husband is the only sane one.  I wish there were a place where we could just move away from it all and start over.  We can't take it anymore.  Unless family wants to tell us off, or if someone dies, we don't hear from anyone.  You tell me, THAT'S FAMILY?  I have to keep praying that God will get us through all of this.