I have a question for everyone

I have one question for everyone, but first:Yes I did just post a very depressing entry about how I'm sure I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life.  But that is just my feelings now Here's my question: I'd like to know from everyone how they got together with their spouses, bfs and gfs, etc.  I dont care who you are or how you got together.  I just want to know if I'm doing the right thing with my persuits.Thanks all More to come later